Saturday, January 9, 2016

A new Wedding Word!

Since marriage recently became legal for all US citizens, wedding industry wordsmiths, like me, stumble on gender-biased words for people ABOUT TO BE married or soon after (such as the commonly used "bride" and "groom").  

CURRENTLY INADEQUATE WORDS: 
* Partner--also means biz partner, or lover, or GF or BF, or fiancee/fiance, or friend, or spouse.
* Spouse--means already married
* Newlyweds--means already married

* Bride--females only
* Groom--males only
* Betrothed--means promised, but does not indicate eminent or recent wedding ceremony 
* Soulmate--also means non-marital BF, or GF, or lover, or best pal, or spiritual friend or relative
* Lover--also means non-marital sexual partner
* all other gender-neutral terms of endearment have same problem... they mean romantic but non-marital partner (darling, sweetheart, honey, dear, Love, Significant Other, etc)



So Margo presents a new one that was accepted on Urban Dictionary:  

See it now: ON URBAN DICTIONARY! 

FYI: "wedmate" is also a wedding photo sharing app but that doesn't affect this adversely. 
~ author, Rev. Margo Ross Sears, a former English professor, has written 1,400+ ceremonies since 2004. visit her at www.beachpeopleweddings.com

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